Household
What a household is
Section titled “What a household is”A household is one shared set of books. Everyone in it sees the same accounts, the same register, the same budget and the same bills — because for a couple running one financial life, two separate copies of the truth is the problem, not the feature.
A household holds two people
Section titled “A household holds two people”Tovari is built for you and one other person. When your household is full, the invite screen says so:
Your household is full. A household can have two people — remove a member or revoke a pending invite to add someone new.
A pending invitation counts toward the two. If you invited the wrong address, revoke it and the place frees up immediately.
What the other person can see
Section titled “What the other person can see”Everything in the shared books: accounts and balances, every transaction, the budget, bills, payees and reports. Sharing a household is sharing the money, not a filtered view of it — invite someone you would show your bank statements to.
A few things stay yours alone rather than being shared, because they describe how you use Tovari rather than what the money did — your register view preferences and your favourite accounts among them.
Invitations expire
Section titled “Invitations expire”An invitation is good for seven days. After that it stops working and you send a new one. That is a security property, not an inconvenience: an invitation link that lived forever in an old inbox would be a standing key to your finances.
Finding your household
Section titled “Finding your household”Open Settings, then Household. It lists who is in the household and any invitation still waiting to be accepted.
Inviting someone
Section titled “Inviting someone”Choose to add someone and enter their email address. Tovari emails them an invitation and shows you the link, so you can pass it on yourself if the email is slow or goes astray.
They do not need a Tovari account first — accepting the invitation walks them through creating one, and they land in your household rather than in books of their own.
Managing who is in it
Section titled “Managing who is in it”- A pending invitation can be revoked before it is accepted, which frees the place immediately.
- A member can be removed. Tovari asks you to confirm, because it ends their access to the shared books.
Removing someone does not delete anything they entered. The transactions, payees and budget decisions they made stay exactly where they are — the books are the household’s, not the person’s.
On a phone browser
Section titled “On a phone browser”The Household section works the same way in the phone-browser layout: the same roster, the same invite flow, the same revoke and remove actions.
Finding your household
Section titled “Finding your household”Open Settings, then Household. The app shows the same roster and the same pending invitations as the web app.
Inviting and managing
Section titled “Inviting and managing”Inviting someone, revoking an invitation that has not been accepted, and removing a member all work in the app. The two-person limit and the seven-day invitation lifetime are properties of your household, so they behave identically wherever you are looking.
Related pages
Section titled “Related pages”- Data and privacy — what a shared household means for an export.
- Settings — where the Household section lives.
- Accounts — the accounts a household shares.
- Where each feature works — what is available on which platform.